When it comes to intimacy, comfort and consent are essential, but so is lube. Whether you’re flying solo, playing with a partner, or exploring with toys, the right lubricant can make all the difference. But not all lubes are created equal, and it’s worth taking a deeper look at not just at what’s in the bottle, but how it got there.
here’s our guide to choosing the right lube; types, safety and ethical choices…
Types of Sexual Lubricants
Sexual lubricants generally fall into four main categories:
1. Water-Based Lube
How it works: These are the most versatile and widely used. They’re compatible with condoms and sex toys and easy to clean up.
Pros: Safe with latex, non-staining, gentle on the body.
Cons: Can dry out with prolonged use (but a splash of water or saliva can reactivate it).
2. Silicone-Based Lube
How it works: Longer-lasting than water-based lubes, these are slick and doesn’t evaporate quickly.
Pros: Great for water play (won’t wash off), very smooth.
Cons: Not compatible with silicone toys (can degrade the material), harder to wash off.
3. Oil-Based Lube
How it works: Thick and long-lasting, oil-based lubes are good for certain kinds of play.
Pros: Natural oils (like coconut or almond) feel luxurious and moisturise the skin.
Cons: Not safe with latex condoms (can cause breakage), can cause irritation or yeast infections in some.
4. Hybrid Lubes
How it works: A mix of water- and silicone-based ingredients. The goal? The best of both worlds.
Pros: Smoother than water-based, more toy-friendly than pure silicone.
Cons: Read the label; compatibility varies based on ratios.
Body-Safe Materials: What to Watch Out For
The genital area is sensitive and absorbent, so choosing a body-safe lube is critical. Here’s what to avoid:
Glycerin & parabens: Can throw off vaginal pH and increase risk of yeast infections.
Petroleum-based products: Not compatible with condoms and can cause irritation.
Fragrances & dyes: These are common irritants and serve no functional purpose.
Look for labels that say:
- pH-balanced
- Paraben-free
- Dermatologically-tested
- Organic or Natural
Ethical Supply Chain: Why It Matters
Lube might seem like a small product, but its production can have a big impact. Choosing an ethical brand supports fair labour, sustainable sourcing, and responsible manufacturing. Here’s what to consider:
1. Cruelty-Free and Vegan
Many mainstream lubes are tested on animals or contain animal byproducts (like glycerin from animal fat). Look for certifications like Leaping Bunny or RSPCA cruelty-free logo.
2. Sustainable Packaging
Glass bottles or recycled/recyclable plastic are better for the planet than single-use plastics. Some brands also offer refill options.
3. Transparent Sourcing
Ethical brands are open about where their ingredients come from. For example, is the palm oil (if used) RSPO-certified? Are botanical extracts fair trade?
4. B-Corp or Fair Trade Certification
These show a commitment to environmental and social responsibility across the entire business, not just the product.
How to Make a Conscious Choice
Here’s a quick checklist to help you make a thoughtful, ethical purchase:
- Read the ingredients list like you would a skincare product.
- Research the brand; check their website, look for certifications, and see how transparent they are.
- Think about compatibility – what kind of sex are you having? Are you using toys or condoms?
- Consider your body’s needs, do you have sensitivities, allergies, or a tendency for infections?
- Support smaller or indie brands that prioritise clean ingredients, body-positivity, and inclusive marketing.
Do we sell lube?
Yes! We sell the YES® brand of lube in both water-based and oil-based varieties. This is because these lubes are certified organic, cruelty-free, and known for excellent vaginal health support. They are most compatible with our toys. You can find it here